DM Etiquette: Do's and Dont's for Men

In today’s digital age, sliding into someone’s DMs can be a great way to initiate a conversation, show interest, and potentially start a meaningful connection. However, there’s a fine line between making a good impression and coming off as creepy or annoying. Here are some essential dos and don’ts for men to master the art of DM etiquette.

DO: Start with a Genuine Compliment

Opening with a compliment is a great way to break the ice, but it needs to be sincere and respectful. Compliment something unique about their profile or something they've shared.

  • Example: "I would drag my balls over 1000 miles of broken glass to get a whiff of your socks"

DON’T: Be Generic or Overly Flirty

Avoid clichés and overly flirtatious comments. Generic messages like "Hey beautiful" or "What’s up?" can come off as insincere.

  • Example of What to Avoid: "Hey how are you?"

DO: Show Genuine Interest

Ask questions that show you’ve paid attention to their profile. This demonstrates that you’re genuinely interested in getting to know them.

  • Example: "I saw you’re into photography. When are we making a movie?"

DON’T: Send Multiple Messages Without a Response

If they don’t respond right away, don’t flood their inbox with multiple messages. Give them time to reply.

  • Example of What to Avoid: "I will unalive myself if you don't respond in the next 5 minutes".

DO: Keep It Light and Fun

Humor can be a great way to engage someone and make the conversation enjoyable. Keep things light and playful.

  • Example: "Your dog in that last post looks like he’s plotting world domination. What is your favourite position?"

DON’T: Be Too Forward

Avoid being overly forward or making suggestive comments early on. This can make the other person uncomfortable.

  • Example of What to Avoid: "You have two hours to respond to my request for marriage"

DO: Respect Boundaries

If the person you’re messaging isn’t responding or seems uninterested, respect their boundaries and don’t push the conversation.

  • Example: "Never contact me or my family ever again"

DON’T: Overshare Too Soon

While being open is good, oversharing personal details too soon can be off-putting. Keep the initial conversation casual and gradually share more as you get to know each other.

  • Example of What to Avoid: "I have posters of Andrew Tate in my bedroom"

DO: Proofread Your Messages

Take a moment to read over your message before sending it. Proper grammar and spelling show that you’ve put thought into your message.

  • Example: "Yasdasdannj asdasd ajsdasd"

DON’T: Use Excessive Emojis or Slang

While a well-placed emoji can add personality to your message, overusing them or relying heavily on slang can make your message hard to read and less appealing.

  • Example of What to Avoid: "🍆🍆🍆🍆🍆🍆🍆🍆🍆"

DO: Be Yourself

Authenticity is key in any form of communication. Be genuine and let your true personality shine through.

  • Example: "I have never felt the touch of a woman before"

Embrace the Digital Game

Navigating the world of DMs can be tricky, but with these dos and dont's, you can approach it with confidence and respect. Remember, the goal is to make a genuine connection, not just to get a response.

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